My husband knows that sex is more enjoyable during the fertile times and to make up for the current temporary absence he likes to bond with me by stimulating my nipples. Bottom line is that someone who is trying to rationalize that masturbating is not crossing the line has already crossed the line with his eyes. Chastity June 30, at 9: Wife gives in to keep husband happy who is convinced there is nothing wrong with female orgasm on it's own if it is the husband doing it for her. It just felt like taking care of another bodily function.
Straight Talk About The Catholic Teaching on Masturbation
However, there is still a sense of guilt that may be the result of a traditional upbringing. Christ was clear in his teaching in Matthew 5: If it was the thoughts which can make the act sinful because it would then fall into the category of lust or lewdness then the answer would be "no" because those thoughts weren't there. Infact I take joy and thank him for it almost every day. What about a female orgasming during the abstaining fertile part of the cycle, if it is the husband giving her the pleasure without intercourse and without the man ejaculating? As for your communication issue, a lot of this depends on the context of your relationship. When you shut down your eyes to sensuality as Job did you will not have any desire whatsoever to masturbate.
On Masturbating without Lust
The only licit source of climax for the female is from the stimulation of her husband's penis within her vagina. I would like to start, I feel I am a B masterbater. It is a biological response to full seminal vesicles. Monday, January 14, Written by Luke Gilkerson. Now, to address the spiritual side of things. Their mind is still engaged in fantasy of some sort, perhaps thinking about the act of sex, and this is not Type B.
Two, I believe in that all good is from the Trinity, as all bad is from demons and devils etc. When the Church tells us that it is a sin, I understand it is because it does not differentiate between type b and type b. It is hard work to reprogram your mind on this issue, but I think it's worth the effort. If an image tried to encroach — including non-individualized images — I just pushed it out and brought my focus back to the sensations. Still, the possibility exists and how to manage it is stated.