I'm not saying that pain and bleeding from the hymen stretching or tearing doesn't exist. I don't understand this comment at all. But it never hurt to make sure you're nice and lubricated before haha. And was an inside job. But the cultural myths about the hymen are not helping any of us. You're from a Singaporean background, yes? Replies to my comment.
Will I Bleed the First Time?
I was really surprised to find out from the comments that other women experienced pain, too. A mom of a 14 year old Girl. You, Your Life, Your Dreams: During childhood most hymenal tissue wears away as a result of washing, walking, athletics, self-exploration, and masturbation , though little bits may remain around the vaginal opening, particularly in the area closest to the anus hymenal tags. I am not happy about their size. Losing virginity is a huge issue, especially in a country like ours. But if there are really severe consequences from people if they're not virgins in their communities, then it does become important?
Do every girl bleed when they lose their virginity?__easycurrents ocean currents measure currents
And if it feels good for you, then go for it, explore your sexuality. I think that it's healthy to discuss issues like this so that we can all learn and improve. I'm waiting till marriage. Losing virginity is a huge issue, especially in a country like ours. Ok I don't think you can SEE your hymen..
Yep, most men get off on "destroying" girls. I had an imperforate hymen Submitted by L on July 14, - I think religion has too much to do with it. This will differ for each woman, but it is common to experience discomfort after your first time having sex. Many women experience spotting 1 to 3 days after having intercourse for the first time. Sometimes it seems as though to be a real man, you have to be having sex. I bled the second time.